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What is Obsessive Love?

Obsessive Love, Love Obsession, Love Addiction, or Relationship Addiction are all common terms when referring to "Obsessive Love."

The experience of insecure love has two main components. One is anxiety. This is the "he loves me, he loves me not" sensation of being kept constantly on edge by a fickle lover. Anxious lovers feel as volatile as the stock market - up one day, down the next. Their passion rages all the more intensely when they are least sure that it is reciprocated.

The second component of insecure love is obsession with the loved one. Love at first sight, longing to see the loved one every day, wanting to go off and live on a deserted island together - these are the signs of romantic obsession. To the obsessed lover, the possibility of rejection feels like the end of the world.

A person who experiences romantic insecurity tends to be both anxious and obsessed. For such a person, love is a tempestuous experience.

-DR HINDY

Obsessive love

Obsessive love is a form of love where one person is emotionally obsessed with another.

Definition

Moore, Forward and Buck believe that rejection is the trigger of obsessive love - also known as love addiction or relationship addiction. They state four conditions to help identify it, namely, a painful and all-consuming preoccupation with a real or wished-for lover, an insatiable longing either to possess or be possessed by the target of their obsession, rejection by or physical and/or emotional unavailability of their target, and being driven to behave in self-defeating ways by this rejection or unavailability.

Two characteristics indicative of obsessive love are:

Obsessive lovers believe that only the person they fixate on can make them feel happy and fulfilled.
Persons close to the love-obsessed can also be greatly affected. Witnessing a friend or family member suffer from the disorder can be distressing.

Forms/stages of obsessive love

Obsessive love is a form of love where one person is emotionally obsessed with another.
Love addiction is a process addiction where a person becomes attached to another in an unhealthy, dependent manner.
Relationship addiction is a process addiction where a person becomes addicted to his or her relationship.
Codependency is a term used to describe when a person becomes dependent upon another for emotional and physical validation.

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MY BAD DAY & OBSESSED~ Sunday, August 2, 2009, 1:31 AM first of all... i had a bad day today. everything just ruined my mood. i feel like punching someone on their face or kick anybody's head. i NEVER like celebrating NDP with my family. NEVER. preferable with a bunch of friends and kecoh². but not my family. for sure i wont have fun. i know today wont be fun. but somehow i plan something for myself, a last limit plan to have fun? but unfortunately, something stopped me. so yarh, i made up my mind not to go with the last min plan. which is sucky. i'm quite ok at that moment. but i guess, they press the wrong button. and there i was fuming. i was sooooo pissed off that i dont even want to talk and look at them. k... the reason was, i really wanna go hm coz i have no mood when the 'last min' plan cancelled, but my family forced me to follow them to pasir ris chalet. hantar farhan coz kawan die ade chalet. my dad was like really forced me and screaming and shouting. OMG!!! soooo irritating. then i stared at him and just walk away. no matter what, i have to follow them. if i were to have a choice, i would run away sia. eeerrrgghhh!! dammit~ _____________________________________________________________________ k.... what is the definition of 'OBSESS'? =To preoccupy the mind of excessively. here is the question.... "ARE U OBSESSED?" i think i am. But when it comes to LOVE, only. and i believe i dont diagnosed with OCD(OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVE DISORDER) which is bad la.... What is Obsessive Love? Obsessive Love, Love Obsession, Love Addiction, or Relationship Addiction are all common terms when referring to "Obsessive Love." The experience of insecure love has two main components. One is anxiety. This is the "he loves me, he loves me not" sensation of being kept constantly on edge by a fickle lover. Anxious lovers feel as volatile as the stock market - up one day, down the next. Their passion rages all the more intensely when they are least sure that it is reciprocated. The second component of insecure love is obsession with the loved one. Love at first sight, longing to see the loved one every day, wanting to go off and live on a deserted island together - these are the signs of romantic obsession. To the obsessed lover, the possibility of rejection feels like the end of the world. A person who experiences romantic insecurity tends to be both anxious and obsessed. For such a person, love is a tempestuous experience. -DR HINDY Obsessive love Obsessive love is a form of love where one person is emotionally obsessed with another. Definition Moore, Forward and Buck believe that rejection is the trigger of obsessive love - also known as love addiction or relationship addiction. They state four conditions to help identify it, namely, a painful and all-consuming preoccupation with a real or wished-for lover, an insatiable longing either to possess or be possessed by the target of their obsession, rejection by or physical and/or emotional unavailability of their target, and being driven to behave in self-defeating ways by this rejection or unavailability. Two characteristics indicative of obsessive love are: Obsessive lovers believe that only the person they fixate on can make them feel happy and fulfilled. Persons close to the love-obsessed can also be greatly affected. Witnessing a friend or family member suffer from the disorder can be distressing. Forms/stages of obsessive love Obsessive love is a form of love where one person is emotionally obsessed with another. Love addiction is a process addiction where a person becomes attached to another in an unhealthy, dependent manner. Relationship addiction is a process addiction where a person becomes addicted to his or her relationship. Codependency is a term used to describe when a person becomes dependent upon another for emotional and physical validation. haha.. well... i dont know why i really wanna talk about this. maybe being obsessive really tiring and bothering me too much. well atleast i learnt something. hehe. take care.